The magical formula to deal with worry situations

I often face choices where I am in the state of indecision because of worry. So one day I decided to find out the solution and I came across this magical method to solve the worry situations. This method is used by personalities like Willis Carrier, who was the inventor of modern air conditioning.

This is a three-step method, First, I will give you the method and then the example of an oil dealer who used this recipe to solve his worry situation.



Step 1: Ask yourself What is the worst that could possibly happen?

Step 2: Accept it mentally

Step 3: Devote your energy to improve upon the worst which you had already accepted it mentally.


Now I will tell you the story of an oil dealer who used this method to solve his worry situation.
Assume the name of the oil dealer to be James.

Back those days, there were restrictions on the quantity of oil you can sell to each customer. one day James found out that his certain delivery truck drivers were delivering oil short to certain customers and then reselling it to their own customers. A very next morning a man knocked on his door, he claimed himself to be a government inspector. The government inspector said, "If you don't pay me 5000$ I will present the documents to the district attorney". He blackmailed the James for 5000$.
James was worried and unable to decide. should he give him 5000 dollars or should he let him present to the district attorney?

Becouse of worry James lost the ability to concentrate. His mind started to jump here and there. Them James applied this formula to solve his problem.

First he asked himself 
What is the worst that could possibly happen.
Ans was that his business will be Destroyed because of bad publicity but he wouldn't go to jail because he hasn't committed any crime personally. 

Then he accepted it mentally. Yes the business is lost .so what He said to himself I know a lot about oil many coparations will be ready to employ me .he started to feel free and was able to concentrate . 

when we force ourself to face the worst and accept it mentally we then eliminate all these big imaginings and put ourself in the position in which we are able to concentrate on our problem.

At last he execute the third step improve upon the worst . As he was thinking about solutions he came across totally different solution. He decided to meet the autorny and tell him every thing . Attorney may have solution that he didn't think about. 
Now it's difficult to imagine that he didn't thought about this before but one of the worst features of worry that it destroys are ability to concentrate.

James met the autorny next morning where autorny told him that this is a blackmail racket going on from one month. The men who claimed to be a government officer is a croack wanted by the police.












Worrying does not get us anywhere. So we must figure out the solutions without worrying.


One of the worst features of worrying is that it destroys our ability to concentrate.
when we are worried our mind jumps here and there and everywhere and we loose all power of decision. however when we force ourself to face the worst and accept it mentally we then eliminate all these big imaginings and put ourself in the position in which we are able to concentrate on our problem.

acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcome the consequences of any misfortune.

Steps -

  1.  Ask youself What is the worst that could possibly happen?
  2. Accept it mentally 
  3. Devote your energy to improve upon the worst which you had already accepted it mentally.

let me tell you a one story in which a oil dealer


oil dealer --- oil company head ---  oil company has number of trucks and drivers
blackmaled
restrictions -- oil -- to customer

certain drivers where delivering oil short to certain customers and then re selling the surplus to customer of their own




so called government inspector
prove
ask good money -- - 5000$
district attorney


firm is responsible for the action of the employees.
bad publicity ruin the businees


pay or not

not able to make the mind






face the worst

1.ruin the business.
2. alright the businees is ruined i accept it mentally.
i probably have to look for job. he knows lot about oil.  there were firm that will be glad to employee me




he began to feel better
and then he was able to think



3. improve on the worst


as he tried to find out the solution and the entire new angle presented to him . he decided to tell the autorny
he may find a solution that he hadn't thought of.


blackmal racket


government agent --- croak wanted by the police




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